Summary
Connecting with those who have passed is a transformative journey that helps us address unresolved emotions and foster healing for both ourselves and our departed loved ones. Guided Out-of-Body Experiences (OBEs) provide a valuable means to navigate grief, allowing us to release feelings of guilt and regret. These connections reveal important lessons about love and shared experiences, emphasizing that healing is achievable through understanding and compassion.
This teaches us that it's never too late to express love or seek closure, creating lasting peace that can impact past and future generations as well. By embracing the healing potential of these encounters, we honor the memories of those we've lost while also caring for our emotional well-being. Ultimately, guided OBEs illustrate that every connection in life and death is significant and has the power to deepen our understanding of existence.
Below the story is the transcript of a session, for reference.
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Imagine losing someone dear to you, without the chance to say goodbye or share your final thoughts. Perhaps there were words left unspoken, emotions pushed aside, or a last conscious hug that you longed for. These experiences, while painful, are more common than we might realize.
When unresolved feelings linger about a person who has passed away, they can create unease on both conscious and subconscious levels, leading to stress and emotional turmoil. Guided Out-of-Body experiences (OBEs) can provide a unique opportunity for resolution. In one memorable session, a client revisited the moment of her father’s and mother’s passing. This time, she was present, holding their hands as they transitioned. It felt as though her parents had been waiting for this moment to be relived. Her mother even said, “You’re finally home.”
In my guided OBE sessions, we steer clear of drama or blame. Instead, we focus on expressing and acknowledging the weight of certain experiences. Through this connection, we aim for creating mutual understanding and create space to harmonize the energy between individuals. We explore the significance of these moments; what lessons were meant to be learned?
Healing with one who passed, often arises spontaneously during these guided journeys, or it may be one of the conscious focus points of the session. Facilitating these profound moments can bring healing not only to the individuals involved but can also resonate across generations.
Throughout my life, I have facilitated approximately 25 connections between individuals and their departed loved ones as an occasional medium. A striking observation has been that many who have passed do not move on due to feelings of guilt, remaining connected to those they feel they have wronged. Guilt appears to be one of the most limiting, and often weakening, energies preventing souls from progressing after death.
These lingering connections can lead to stress and even physical ailments for the living. For instance, I once guided an OBE with a client whose deceased aunt remained attached to him out of guilt. She wanted him to hug her son, conveying her love through him. We explained that this was not possible, but that he could instead share her message of love with her son, encouraging the aunt to move on. Once she did, my client experienced immense relief.
The possibilities offered by guided OBEs are limitless; anything is possible. We can even connect with past lives that may not have concluded properly. Many of us carry fragments of our souls that remain tied to unresolved physical realities. It is truly beautiful when a client invites these past life aspects to detach from their physical form, reassuring them that it is safe to continue their journey in another realm where they can be free from burdens.
During an OBE, we travel with the part of ourselves that transcends physical limitations; the aspect that cannot be harmed and continues beyond physical death. While death may emerge as a healing theme during these guided sessions, it does not affect our true essence. Through this exploration, we find healing, connection, and ultimately, peace.
The following is a short transcript of a journey with a woman who felt guilty towards her father who passed some years ago. Her name is not Amy, I changed it for privacy reasons. It is a short section of a 1,5 hour journey, it gives an impression of how a connection can unfold.
In each session, we look for a guide or a master in our Higher Self to connect to. They can connect us to ones who passed, if they are available, and give answers to basically all our questions. The transcript starts when Amy is perceiving a nature like setting that isn't all that Earht-like.
JEROEN: What do you see?
AMY: It is like, I can’t believe it. I am seeing quite a lush place, like a kind of beautiful tropical forest. I see trees. It is very sparkly, not windy, but beautiful.
JEROEN: you can move further into that space if you want.
AMY: Yes there is like a nice pool with water, it is really a soft place, the water is nice to go for a swim or something.
JEROEN: You like to feel how it is to swim?
AMY: Yeah. Oh it feels amazing, like a whole kind of shedding of something. It is really lovely being there.
JEROEN: Does the water feel different?
AMY: It is not like water, it is like turquoise, not hot or cold, it is like something very nice, it feels good.
JEROEN: Do you feel the water is conscious, can you connect with it, or talk with it?
AMY: Ehm, yeah it is like turquoise and I can talk to it. It is very alive.
JEROEN: Can you ask the water if it also has also other forms to present itself to you?
AMY: Oh, yeah. I now see a woman with long hair and very slender and tall.
JEROEN: how does it feel to look in her eyes? What is the impression?
AMY: Like I am transfixed. Like she is holding me with her strong gaze, it is nice and comforting.
JEROEN: Can you express your gratitude for her being here with you?
AMY: Yes, I feel to bow my head down. But I feel very small.
JEROEN: Can you ask her if it is ok that you make yourself bigger, to be at the same height as her?
AMY: Yes, that is ok. That feels much better.
JEROEN: Can you ask her if she knows you? And if she is one of your guides?
AMY: Yes she knows me and she says she is a guide. And the scene has changed, we are sitting at a table.
JEROEN: Can you share with her that you have the wish to meet your father, who passed, if that is possible?
AMY: She says she has to find out and she will get back to me. She is doing that telepathically.
JEROEN: Can you share with her why it is important for you to meet your father? That you want to remove the guilt you feel for not seeing him before he died.
AMY: And to thank him for being my father.
JEROEN: Can you ask her if he is available.
AMY: Yes, I can hear him calling my nickname when I was a child. And now I can see him very clearly. He looks fine, he doesn’t look that old and not that young.
JEROEN: How does it feel to look into his eyes.
AMY: It feels very calming, and I miss him.
JEROEN: Can you share with him that you miss him?
AMY: (crying) he says he is sorry. Sorry that he didn’t stand up for us and that he left his wife.
JEROEN: Can you forgive him completely and release him from any burden?
AMY: Yes, I do forgive him completely and I say sorry too.
JEROEN: How is he responding to that?
AMY: He is crying. (both crying) We are hugging each other. It is very sweet together. We are looking at each other and saying I love you.